Oops

Sorry.  Did I make a mistake?  What if you make a mistake and write another blog about mistakes?  Or did I? Yep.  Probably.  Ask my wife.  Despite my short falls, I have a love and desire for the nature of managing and leading others.  When doing that, I make mistakes. At this moment, I am […]

Relevance

Do I matter?  Does what I do matter?  Does what I share have immediate relevance regarding the efforts of my audience?  Welcome to my world.  I think about this all the time.  My trademark statement is “Let’s be Real”.  The idea is to take a concept and then slow down and speak about how it […]

Likeability, Table for One

“Can’t we just get along “ was a said by Rodney King in 1991 during a stressful moment in our history.  Despite the hard stuff and everything that was a negative, the saying and feeling was that of hope.  A hope to be, uh, what…loved, appreciated, maybe just liked for who we are.  Even in […]

The mirror

Recently, I looked into the mirror.  Man, I have that amount of gray?  Really?  It has been quite a ride for these 47 years.  I have seen just a bit.  I am noticing the lines and have earned every line, wrinkle or smile thingy.  Does that make me old or wise?  That is the point […]

Left or Right Brain…

I am having a moment.  Really?  Yes, this is the voice of my wife on the back of my ear.  I never have moments or maybe I have moments all the time.  I am never sure which one is right.  Or wrong.  Or whatever. I was in a learning session with a client and we […]

Lament much?

I play poker with a couple of guys in the neighborhood.  Ten bucks in and you too can be the winner of, uh, seventy bucks.  We have been doing this for a bit.  Fun stuff.  Most recently, I did and thought what many do when you fold.  You second guess.  You think too much about […]

An end.

I have recently become aware of that my favorite coffee place will no longer be.  They have had to make a difficult decision regarding “to be or not to be” due to a lease.  And selfishly, I must find a new place.  I must say the harder realization is that several baristas that I have […]

Mistake, anyone?

Do over.  Right?  Or is it mulligan?  I was listening to music today and felt compelled to write this thought, this blog.  What if you make a mistake? While the easy question is have you ever made a mistake, the better question is what you did with the learning when you made it?  Ask my […]

Huh?

OK.  I have been traveling a lot.  I have been working with clients, which means I have been working with managers constantly for the past many weeks.  Which also means I have been speaking with managers about coaching.  We have been discussing the reason for coaching, what to coach and how to coach it.  We […]

Amplify

How long has it been since I wrote a new post?  Two in 24 hours.  Wow, I must be back in my office.  Well, recently, I was in Indianapolis and saw a sales guy I know.  He was mentioning he would like me to consider a job possibility.  While we were chatting about stuff, I […]